Seeing the laundry list of women and men posting here, makes me wonder why dating can be a challenge. I’m a 55 year old man and the last 3+ years no girlfriend makes me wonder what I’m doing wrong? I was married for 24 years, divorced 7. Dated a few great ladies and haven’t had a lick of luck in awhile. But stating men have it easier isn’t always the case. Seems women are angry, maybe not always, or fearful?
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I look at younger women thinking there are only so many “good” years before they turn the same way. I’m tall, fit and financially secure, but doubt many women my age want to do a 100mile bike ride with me or go skydiving ! Are we too old to have a “girlfriend” that becomes the love of our lives? Unhappy or single and maybe more unhappy….
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I think many are similar to what the confused Dude has described. I don’t think all men are like this though – there are bound to be some exceptions to this – even some people who actually fall in love with each other and their age doesn’t come into it. I don’t know what else to do anymore. I am not someone who enjoys being alone. I like my own space and time to myself on a regular basis, but as a lifestyle being alone really sucks. I am sorry your wife didn’t value you for the man you are.
Seems that these women want to be recognized for a prosperous career, like men, but they don’t care who they hurt in the process. That means be kind to yourself and try to do some activities that have meaning for you and make you happy. They are very healing for the mind and can https://legitdatingreviews.com/jswipe-review/ help you shed a few pounds if you combine it with healthy eating, which you should be doing anyway if you are not in good health. These things can help you feel better overall, as well as feel better about yourself as a person. Take a class or do something to mingle with people.
Older woman run marathons and aren’t any heavier than the pregnant looking men as they age. Please refrain from your arrogance about looks..you probably look at porn because no younger woman wants an old man marathon runner or not. Sometimes I’m sad about it all but mostly try to be upbeat for my many blessings.
It doesn’t matter that you have young kids…I know a dad in his fifties with two young daughters which he had custody of because the mother was sadly mentally ill. He is remarried to a lovely younger woman and their family has now grown to four children. I think the odds are in your favor but you have to stay positive, be a good companion and have a sense of humor. Be affectionate without being “needy” and you’ll find plenty of gals who will adore you! It is obvious you succeeded before and you will again…age is only a number.
And it is women like you that really did destroy the dating scene for many of us good men really looking for love today. For over 35 years I was with my soul mate. The last 7 years of our relationship I took care of him. We traveled all over the world having a wonderful time and life. We worked hard and had 2 beautiful children, now morally grounded adults. Maybe some women put sex first in a relationship, but as a majority I think not.
A lady like you who does not look a man’s money unfortunately is very very rare. At our age it is very possible to have health issues and I have a few of my own. I can understand if someone else does too.
It’s a horror show out there and lady, you MUST be the exception. Thank you for your refreshing and candid comments. Us women who were discarded and whose husbands of 30+ years must feel good about ourselves because so many of our ex’s will be remarrying before us and most likely to women younger than ourselves. Sex after 50 is all about attitude! Started dating after a 25 yr marriage.
Not all women fit into this category you described, and certainly not all men 50 and over are candidates for a meaningful relationship anymore. I am sorry for how you’ve been treated. I too was cheated on, by more than one man.
